Book Review
Constructive Conflict Management:
Managing to Make a Difference (1995) Crawley, J., London: Nicholas Brealey
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This book is written specifically for managers and tries to answer the
question – “How can you find ways of resolving conflict
so that people are able to express and work through their differences
without the risk of or the necessity to damage one another? He draws
on a wide range of research and experience in delineating skills and
he demonstrates how these can be used through a series of typical conflict
scenario case studies that one might encounter in the course of managing.
His focus is primarily on the interpersonal dimension while emphasising
the need for self-awareness and understanding, the importance of sharpening
perception and building a repertoire of skills. He regards responding
positively to people and situations as a fair and proper expectation
of any manager and sees conflict as being the situation in which it
is most difficult to maintain this stance. He uses the explosive metaphor
for the way we often handle conflict – i.e. destructively, and
offers an interesting alternative focused on controlling the temperature
and building relationship. As with many of these books, the approach
outlined looks disarmingly simple. However here, the complexity and
subtlety of the approach comes to life through the numerous case studies.
The book provides a valuable start for skills building and an aid to
continuing reflective practice with many valuable insights into conflict
and its management. I think however, that many managers would need a
workshop or coaching to get the most from it.
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