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Highlighting the Financial Cost of ConflictHow can we help organizations become aware of the costs of conflict in advance so they are motivated to prepare themselves and develop the insights and disciplines required to deal with it positively and constructively? The answer, or at least a substantial part of it, is to help people reflect on the costs of conflicts in which they have been engaged. Most of us tend to have a reactive response to conflict - we deal with it only when we feel the pain, the loss or the damage. The benefits of dealing constructively with conflict tend come later so they often do not motivate us to put the time into developing the mindsets, the strategies and the skills that might be needed to resolve and transform conflict. The usual reaction when the heat goes out of the conflict is "Oh, I'm glad that is over" - until the next time that is - and then - "I wish I had ...." , but it is too late, the conflict is in your face and you are reacting in the same old ineffective way again. But we can motivate ourselves to put the time in to deal constructively with conflict by taking time to reflect on and learn from past conflicts - and the soon afterwards the better. The costs of destructive conflict, such as damaged relationships, lost opportunities, damage to reputations, and financial costs can be substantial though much of it is intangible, remains hidden or is difficult to quantify. We often tend to kid ourselves as to what the real costs are especially if we only look selectively or at our own losses. Awareness of the full costs are likely to motivate us to address conflict proactively and constructively and in so doing we will also discover that the benefits are not just confined to avoiding the negative effects. Daniel Dana, whose book I reviewed last month, highlights the following on his website:-
Dana suggests a way of estimating the financial costs of workplace conflict which helps you to calculate the hidden costs that may have impacted your business. He says the "cost factors" listed on the (adapted) worksheet below are the primary ways that conflict incurs financial costs. Not all cost factors are relevant to every conflict, but every conflict incurs cost by several of these means. He also provides a clear rationale for the suggested calculations which you may want to view on his website http://www.mediationworks.com Cost
Estimation Worksheet
For some businesses these costs are substantial. For others they are at least sufficient to highlight the need to address this large but reducible cost by building capability to resolve and transform conflict. To begin building this capability and to learn about the skills and strategies required to deal constructively with conflict come to our November workshop on Workplace Conflict or feel free to contact us for a free initial coaching or consultation session. |